I was talking to a friend of mine about love and I started thinking about it, I think that a lot of people have an unrealistic notion about love.
Love isn't when someone is perfect, or you start to think they are perfect. Love isn't about denying someone's faults, love is about noticing that someones isn't perfect and still staying with them. Love is about looking past faults and problems unknowingly and being happy with that. Love isn't something you try for, it's just something that happens. You don't have to look for love because love isn't something you can find, love finds you. When you least expect it, love finds you, and it can leave you at anytime. There are different types of love as well, there is a blind liking which fools you into believing it's love, there is a love that you obtain at birth and no one really knows why, there is love that sneaks up on you and pounces like a tiger, and there is love that you obtain from loyalty. Sometimes I question if the loyalty type of love is real love, or if it's just the mind being mistaken. There is a blinding connection that we mistake for love as well, this idea that the person we "love" will never have any flaws. I think this connection is easy to mistake for love because it is so close to actual love, where in pure love we see flaws in bright red but we accept and try to improve them, while in this blinding connection you can't see flaws. Not being able to see and accept flaws shows a lack of truth within oneself and that will cause someone to have a lack of truth with other.
At least that is my opinion, what are yours?
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