Okay so I have written something inspirational, but it came from anger so I'm waiting to cool off before I post it. I'm scared that if I post it I will end up regretting it, so I am going to wait a couple of days.
Either way, sorry I haven't been posting a lot. Busy, so many papers. I have to say you guys are really my motivation to get my butt going. I want to be an inspiration to someone who has had a rough life and that is my goal. To do something with this life and make a difference. I think I want to talk about negative people.
My favorite saying is that misery loves company. I try my hardest to be positive because I think the best response is smiling, and I would rather be happy than live with a scowl. When someone insults you you look at them and say something a little sarcastic and smile. Just smile. Smiling pisses people off so much, plus it's attractive. Living with a constant scowl makes you age horribly and just look miserable, who wants that? People who smile are so much more approachable too, and normally people do things to get a rise out of you. Which is okay, they can get a rise, but make sure your rise comes out as something positive. Make them realize that they just motivated you to make this world a better place and do it. I was always taught that misery is like the flu, it spreads, so your smile can be the cure. I like to look at things from a comical stance, which can be seen as rude but when someone treats you poorly who cares. I normally look at the situation and chuckle as I say "You have got to be kidding." Because when someone doesn't like you they will come up with the most ridiculous things, and that's okay. Just say (after examining yourself to make sure the claim isn't true of course, because sometimes claims are true and humans always have to improve themselves because we are constantly changing) "You know what, I like who I am, and I have to live with me longest so yeah, who cares what you think." And that will be that, because you have to live with you longest and you will never get rid of you. I'm not saying love every piece of you, if you have a bad trait realize that trait and try your hardest to get rid of it, but don't hate yourself. Because other people will always do that for you, and that's alright, because hate comes from within. So if someone hates you so much that they are going out of their way to make your life suck just realize that that is their problem and that you can just live and ignore it. Because who cares? I mean really, who cares? I guarantee the only people who will care are people who have never met you, and once they do meet you they will most likely say "Hey, you aren't anything like I thought!" So just smile, because no one can stop your happiness unless you let them.
Remember being positive is a gift and just feels good, so stay positive. :)
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